Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
—Margaret Mead (1901–78) American Anthropologist, Social Psychologist
Instinct teaches us to look for happiness outside ourselves.
—Blaise Pascal (1623–62) French Mathematician, Physicist, Theologian
Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to think.
—Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807–82) American Poet, Educator, Academic
The habit of being uniformly considerate toward others will bring increased happiness to you.
—Grenville Kleiser (1868–1935) Canadian Author
What’s the use of doing a kindness, if you do it a day too late.
—Charles Kingsley (1819–75) English Clergyman, Academic, Historian, Novelist
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910) American Humorist
I know some good marriages — marriages where both people are just trying to get through their days by helping each other, being good to each other.
—Erica Jong (b.1942) American Novelist, Feminist
Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom.
—Theodore Isaac Rubin (1923–2019) American Psychiatrist, Author
I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act. The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness.
—Abraham Maslow (1908–70) American Psychologist, Academic, Humanist
The greatest happiness in the world is to make others happy.
—Luther Burbank (1849–1926) American Botanist, Scientist
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
—Unknown
We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.
—Epictetus (55–135) Ancient Greek Philosopher
When you are kind to others, it not only changes you, it changes the world.
—Harold Kushner (b.1935) American Jewish Religious Leader, Priest
When we come into contact with the other person, our thoughts and actions should express our mind of compassion, even if that person says and does things that are not easy to accept. We practice in this way until we see clearly that our love is not contingent upon the other person being lovable.
—Thich Nhat Hanh (b.1926) Vietnamese Buddhist Religious Leader, Teacher, Author, Peace Activist
Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.
—J. M. Barrie (1860–1937) Scottish Novelist, Dramatist
When you give of your possessions, you give but little; it is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
—Kahlil Gibran (1883–1931) Lebanese-born American Philosopher, Poet, Painter, Theologian, Sculptor
Caring is a reflex. Someone slips, your arm goes out. A car is in the ditch, you join the others and push…You live, you help.
—Ram Dass (1931–2019) American Hindu, New Age Pioneer
Let us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate. Compassion is hard because it requires the inner disposition to go with others to the place where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. But this is not our spontaneous response to suffering. What we desire most is to do away with suffering by fleeing from it or finding a quick cure for it. As busy, active, relevant ministers, we want to earn our bread by making a real contribution. This means first and foremost doing something to show that our presence makes a difference. And so we ignore our greatest gift, which is our ability to enter into solidarity with those who suffer. Those who can sit in silence with their fellowman, not knowing what to say but knowing that they should be there, can bring new life in a dying heart. Those who are not afraid to hold a hand in gratitude, to shed tears in grief and to let a sigh of distress arise straight from the heart can break through paralyzing boundaries and witness the birth of a new fellowship, the fellowship of the broken.
—Henri Nouwen (1932–96) Dutch Catholic Theologian, Writer
We not only need to be willing to give, but also to be open to receiving from others.
—Anonymous
Pleasure is a reciprocal; no one feels it who does not at the same time give it. To be pleased, one must please.
—Earl of Chesterfield (1694–1773) English Statesman, Man of Letters
Kindness causes us to learn, and to forget, many things.
—Sophie Swetchine (1782–1857) Russian Mystic, Writer
I believe that man will not merely endure; he will prevail. He is immortal, not because he alone among the creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because he has a soul, a spirit capable of kindness and compassion.
—William Faulkner (1897–1962) American Novelist
I have learned about opening the heart, being more understanding, more loving, kinder.
—Barbra Streisand (b.1942) American Musician, Actor, Songwriter
Make it a practice to judge persons and things in the most favorable light at all times and under all circumstances.
—Vincent de Paul (1581–1660) French Catholic Saint
Something that has always puzzled me all my life is why, when I am in special need of help, the good deed is usually done by somebody on whom I have no claim.
—William Feather (1889–1981) American Publisher, Author
Rings and jewels are not gifts, but apologies for gifts. The only gift is a portion of thyself.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–82) American Philosopher
The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.
—Hada Bejar
We may scatter the seeds of courtesy and kindness about us at little expense. Some of them will fall on good ground, and grow up into benevolence in the minds of others, and all of them will bear fruit of happiness in the bosom whence they spring.
—Jeremy Bentham (1748–1832) British Philosopher, Economist
The mortal sickness of a mind too unhappy to be kind.
—A. E. Housman (1859–1936) English Poet, Classical Scholar
A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives you roses.
—Chinese Proverb
One difference between savagery and civilization is a little courtesy. There’s no telling what a lot of courtesy would do.
—Cullen Hightower (b.1923) American Humorist
If we make our goal to live a life of compassion and unconditional love, then the world will indeed become a garden where all kinds of flowers can bloom and grow.
—Elisabeth Kubler-Ross (1926-2004) American Psychiatrist
The center of human nature is rooted in ten thousand ordinary acts of kindness that define our days.
—Stephen Jay Gould (1941–2002) American Paleontologist
If we cannot be clever, we can always be kind.
—Alfred Downing Fripp
I don’t care how much you know until I know how much you care.
—Unknown
A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
—Anonymous
Compassion is sometimes the fatal capacity for feeling what it is like to live inside somebody else’s skin. It is the knowledge that there can never really be any peace and joy for me until there is peace and joy finally for you too.
—Frederick Buechner (b.1926) American Presbyterian Clergyman, Novelist, Short Story Writer, Essayist, Theologian
The purpose of human life is to serve and show compassion and the will to help others.
—Albert Schweitzer (1875–1965) French Theologian, Musician, Philosopher, Physician
We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the small daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we often cannot foresee.
—Marian Wright Edelman (b.1939) American Civil Regrets Advocate, Humanitarian, Lawyer
Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can.
—John Wesley (1703–91) British Methodist Religious Leader, Preacher, Theologian
I have sped much by land, and sea, and mingled with much people, but never yet could find a spot unsunned by human kindness.
—Martin Farquhar Tupper (1810–89) English Poet, Writer
A kind and compassionate act is often its own reward.
—William Bennett (b.1943) American Politician, Political Theorist, Government Official
So many gods, so many creeds,
So many paths that wind and wind,
While just the art of being kind
Is all the sad world needs.
—Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850–1919) American Poet, Journalist
Kind words are a creative force, a power that concurs in the building up of all that is good, and energy that showers blessings upon the world.
—Lawrence G. Lovasik
Don’t wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any happiness you get you’ve got to make yourself.
—Alice Walker (b.1944) American Novelist, Activist
Civility costs nothing, and buys everything.
—Lady Mary Wortley Montagu (1689–1762) English Aristocrat, Poet, Novelist, Writer
Kindness is language which the dumb can speak, and the deaf can understand.
—Christian Nestell Bovee (1820–1904) American Writer, Aphorist
My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four, unless there are three other people.
—Orson Welles (1915–85) American Film Director, Actor
No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.
—Aesop (620–564 BCE) Greek Fabulist
I have found men to be more kind than I expected, and less just.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
As the purse is emptied, the heart is filled.
—Victor Hugo (1802–85) French Novelist
Right actions for the future are the best apologies for wrong ones in the past — the best evidence of regret for them that we can offer, or the world receive.
—Tryon Edwards American Theologian
The heart benevolent and kind the most resembles God.
—Robert Burns (1759–96) Scottish Poet, Songwriter
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
—Common Proverb
Kindness is the golden chain by which society is bound together.
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749–1832) German Poet
Satisfaction lies in the effort, not in the attainment. Full effort is full victory.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Indian Hindu Political leader
The prudence of the best heads is often defeated by the tenderness of the best of hearts.
—Henry Fielding (1707–54) English Novelist, Dramatist
The time is always right to do what’s right.
—Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929–68) American Civil Rights Leader, Clergyman
I soothe my conscience now with the thought that it is better for hard words to be on paper than that Mummy should carry them in her heart.
—Anne Frank (1929–45) Holocaust Victim
I know the compassion of others is a relief at first. I don’t despise it. But it can’t quench pain, it slips through your soul as through a sieve. And when our suffering has been dragged from one pity to another, as from one mouth to another, we can no longer respect or love it.
—Georges Bernanos (1888–1948) French Author
Although I may not be a lioness, I am a lion’s cub, and inherit many of his qualities; and as long as the King of France treats me gently he will find me as gentle and tractable as he can desire; but if he be rough, I shall take the trouble to be just as troublesome and offensive to him as I can.
—Queen Elizabeth I (1533–1603) British Monarch
Kindness, I’ve discovered, is everything in life.
—Isaac Bashevis Singer (1902–91) Polish-born American Children’s Books Writer, Novelist, Short Story Writer
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
—Leo Buscaglia (1924–98) American Motivational Speaker
Being considerate of others will take your children further in life than any college degree.
—Marian Wright Edelman (b.1939) American Civil Regrets Advocate, Humanitarian, Lawyer
We’re here for a reason. I believe a bit of the reason is to throw little torches out to lead people through the dark.
—Whoopi Goldberg (b.1955) American Comedian, Actor, Musician, Political Activist, TV Personality
Politeness costs nothing and gains everything.
—Lady Mary Wortley Montagu (1689–1762) English Aristocrat, Poet, Novelist, Writer
Look up and not down, look forward and not back, look out and not in, and lend a hand!
—Edward Everett Hale (1822–1909) American Unitarian Clergyman
Love is like an hour-glass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties.
—Jules Renard (1864–1910) French Writer, Diarist
How wretched is the person who hangs on by the favors of the powerful.
—Robert Burns (1759–96) Scottish Poet, Songwriter
What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other?
—George Eliot (Mary Anne Evans) (1819–80) English Novelist
You can’t shake hands with a clenched fist.
—Indira Gandhi (1917–84) Indian Head of State
Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.
—Scott Adams (b.1957) American Cartoonist
Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind.
—Eric Hoffer (1902–83) American Philosopher, Author
How easy it is for one benevolent being to diffuse pleasure around him; and how truly is a kind heart a fountain of gladness, making everything in its vicinity to freshen into smiles!
—Washington Irving (1783–1859) American Essayist, Biographer, Historian
Live for others, and they will live for you.
—Paramahansa Yogananda (1893–1952) Indian Hindu Mystic, Religious Leader, Philosopher, Teacher
Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
He who confers a favor should at once forget it, if he is not to show a sordid, ungenerous spirit. To remind a man of a kindness conferred on him, and to talk of it, is little different from reproach.
—Demosthenes (384–322 BCE) Greek Statesman, Orator
It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others. It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring.
—Alfred Adler (1870–1937) Austrian Psychiatrist
When you can do the common things of life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world.
—George Washington Carver (1864–1943) American Scientist, Botanist, Educator, Inventor
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a naughty world.
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616) British Playwright
For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge you’ll never walk alone.
—Sam Levenson (1911–80) American Humorist, Writer, TV Personality, Journalist
The sense that some one else cares always helps because it is the sense of love.
—George Edward Woodberry (1855–1930) American Literary Critic, Poet
Giving is the secret of a healthy life. Not necessarily money, but whatever a person has of encouragement, sympathy and understanding.
—John D. Rockefeller, Jr. (1874–1960) American Philanthropist, Businessperson
If I can stop one heart from breaking,
I shall not live in vain;
If I can ease one life the aching,
Or cool one pain,
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again,
I shall not live in vain.
—Emily Dickinson (1830–86) American Poet
Love all. Serve all. Help ever. Hurt never.
—Sathya Sai Baba (1926–2011) Indian Hindu Religious Leader
One of the best uses of your time is to increase your competence in your key result areas.
—Brian Tracy (b.1944) American Author, Motivational Speaker
Compassion for others begins with kindness to ourselves.
—Pema Chodron (b.1936) American Buddhist Nun
There are no traffic jams on the extra mile.
—Zig Ziglar (1926–2012) American Author
Getting money is not all a man’s business; to cultivate kindness is a valuable part of the business of life.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
Kindness arises by standing apart from oneself and recognizing all beings as companions on the arduous travel towards highest perfection.
—Hans Taeger
Kindness is the light that dissolves all walls between souls, families, and nations.
—Paramahansa Yogananda (1893–1952) Indian Hindu Mystic, Religious Leader, Philosopher, Teacher
Hail thy brother’s boat across, and lo! thine own has reached the shore.
—Indian Proverb
Doing good is the only certainly happy action of a man’s life.
—Philip Sidney (1554–86) English Soldier Poet, Courtier
Win hearts, and you have all men’s hands and purses.
—William Cecil, 1st Baron Burghley (1521–98) English Political leader
Fair and softly goes far.
—Miguel de Cervantes (1547–1616) Spanish Novelist
When you are kind to someone in trouble, you hope they’ll remember and be kind to someone else. And it’ll become like a wildfire.
—Whoopi Goldberg (b.1955) American Comedian, Actor, Musician, Political Activist, TV Personality
In faith and hope the world will disagree, but all mankind’s concern is charity.
—Alexander Pope (1688–1744) English Poet
Be nice and smile to everyone you meet. You don’t know what they are going through, and they may need that smile, and treasure it.
—Unknown
If you want happiness for an hour — take a nap. If you want happiness for a day — go fishing. If you want happiness for a month — get married. If you want happiness for a year — inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime — help someone else.
—Chinese Proverb
To be able under all circumstances to practice five things constitutes perfect virtue; these five things are gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness and kindness.
—Confucius (551–479 BCE) Chinese Philosopher
There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first … when you learn to live for others, they will live for you.
—Paramahansa Yogananda (1893–1952) Indian Hindu Mystic, Religious Leader, Philosopher, Teacher
In all the affairs of life, social as well as political, courtesies of a small and trivial character are the ones which strike deepest to the grateful and appreciating heart.
—Henry Clay (1777–1852) American Politician
The worst prison is a closed heart.
—Pope John Paul II (1920–2005) Polish Catholic Religious Leader
An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Indian Hindu Political leader
We always prefer war on our own terms to peace on someone else’s.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
To err is human, to forgive divine.
—Alexander Pope (1688–1744) English Poet
Care is a state in which something does matter; it is the source of human tenderness.
—Rollo May (1909–94) American Philosopher
The weak can’t forgive. Forgiveness is of the strong.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Indian Hindu Political leader
There is nothing heavier than compassion. Not even one’s own pain weighs so heavy as the pain one feels with someone, for someone, a pain intensified by the imagination and prolonged by a hundred echoes.
—Milan Kundera (b.1929) Czech Novelist
Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?
—J. M. Barrie (1860–1937) Scottish Novelist, Dramatist
He was so benevolent, so merciful a man that, in his mistaken passion, he would have held an umbrella over a duck in a shower of rain.
—Douglas William Jerrold (1803–57) English Writer, Dramatist, Wit
He that has done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged.
—Benjamin Franklin (1706–90) American Political Leader, Inventor, Diplomat
When you rise in the morning, form a resolution to make the day a happy one for a fellow creature.
—Sydney Smith (1771–1845) English Clergyman, Essayist, Wit
The drying up a single tear has more of honest fame, than shedding seas of gore.
—Lord Byron (George Gordon Byron) (1788–1824) English Romantic Poet
It is enough that I am of value to somebody today.
—Hugh Prather (b.1938) American Christian Author, Minister, Counselor
Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
—Desmond Tutu (b.1931) South African Clergyman
When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside. It is as though something inside your body responds and says, yes, this is how I ought to feel.
—Harold Kushner (b.1935) American Jewish Religious Leader, Priest
This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
One can pay back the loan of gold, but one lives forever in debt to those who are kind.
—Malaysian Proverb
The only people with whom you should try to get even are those who have helped you.
—Mae Maloo
If you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path.
—Mary Webb (1881–1927) English Novelist, Poet, Writer
If something uncharitable is said in your presence, either speak in favor of the absent, or withdraw, or, if possible, stop the conversation.
—John Vianney (1786–1859) French Catholic Priest, Saint
An effort made for the happiness of others lifts us above ourselves.
—Lydia Maria Child (1802–80) American Abolitionist, Writer
We need a new ethos of greater responsibility and caring.
—Hillary Rodham Clinton (b.1947) American Head of State, Politician
With a sweet tongue and kindness, you can drag an elephant by a hair.
—Persian Proverb
If we could all hear one another’s prayers, God might be relieved of some of his burdens.
—Ashleigh Brilliant (b.1933) British Cartoonist, Author
One kind word can warm three winter months.
—Japanese Proverb
The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of oneself to others.
—Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1881–1955) French Jesuit Philosopher, Paleontologist
A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you, and were helped by you, will remember you when forget-me-nots are withered. Carve your name on hearts, and not on marble.
—Charles Spurgeon (1834–92) English Baptist Preacher
True religion is not a mere doctrine, something that can be taught, but is a way of life. A life in community with God. It must be experienced to be appreciated. A life of service. A living by giving and finding one’s own happiness by bringing happiness into the lives of others.
—William J. H. Boetcker (1873–1962) American Presbyterian Minister
Let nothing be done in your life, which will cause you fear if it becomes known to your neighbor.
—Epicurus (c.341–270 BCE) Greek Philosopher
When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die.
—Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American First Lady, Diplomat, Humanitarian
What we think of as our sensitivity is only the higher evolution of terror in a poor dumb beast. We suffer for nothing. Our own death wish is our only real tragedy.
—Mario Puzo (1920–99) Novelist, Screenwriter, Journalist
Be prudent, diligent, temperate and discreet. Remember that every human being has a claim upon your kind offices.
—Albert Pike (1809–91) American Masonic Scholar, Orator, Jurist
Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.
—Barbara De Angelis (b.1951) American Lecturer, Author, TV Personality, Motivational Speaker
How frail the human heart must be –a mirrored pool of thought…
—Sylvia Plath (1932–63) American Poet, Novelist
The happiness of life may be greatly increased by small courtesies in which there is no parade, whose voice is too still to tease, and which manifest themselves by tender and affectionate looks, and little kind acts of attention.
—Laurence Sterne (1713–68) Irish Anglican Novelist, Clergyman
Act as though what you do makes a difference. It does.
—William James (1842–1910) American Philosopher, Psychologist, Physician
Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people brings happiness.
—Harold Kushner (b.1935) American Jewish Religious Leader, Priest
If every man’s internal care Were written on his brow, How many would our pity share Who raise our envy now?
—Metastasio (1698–1782) Italian Poet, Librettist
Kindness in ourselves is the honey that blunts the sting of unkindness in another.
—Walter Savage Landor (1775–1864) English Writer, Poet
When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
He who allows his day to pass by without practicing generosity and enjoying life’s pleasures is like a blacksmith’s bellows; he breathes, but does not live.
—Indian Proverb
Little deeds of kindness,
little words of love,
make our earth an Eden,
like the heaven above.
—Julia Abigail Fletcher Carney (1823–1908) American Educator, Poet
There is no effect more disproportionate to its cause than the happiness bestowed by a small compliment.
—Robert Brault
One man cannot hold another man down in the ditch without remaining down in the ditch with him.
—Booker T. Washington (1856–1915) African-American Educationist
Be a good human being, a warm-hearted affectionate person. That is my fundamental belief. Having a sense of caring, a feeling of compassion will bring happiness of peace of mind to oneself and automatically create a positive atmosphere.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
Little drops of water, little grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean, and the pleasant land:
So the little minutes, humble though they be,
Make the mighty ages of eternity.
Little deeds of kindness, little words of love,
Help to make earth happy, like Heaven above.
—Julia Abigail Fletcher Carney (1823–1908) American Educator, Poet
What boundary ever set limits to the service of mankind?
—Claudian (c.370–c.404 CE) Roman Poet
He gives twice who gives promptly.
—Publilius Syrus (fl.85–43 BCE) Syrian-born Roman Latin Writer
Wise sayings often fall on barren ground, but a kind word is never thrown away.
—Arthur Helps (1813–75) English Dramatist, Essayist
Good humor is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business asset. It attracts and keeps friends. It lightens human burdens. It is the direct route to serenity and contentment.
—Grenville Kleiser (1868–1935) Canadian Author
One of things I keep learning is that the secret of being happy is doing things for other people.
—Dick Gregory (1932–2017) American Comedian, Civil Rights Activist
As much as we need a prosperous economy, we also need a prosperity of kindness and decency.
—Caroline Kennedy (b.1957) American Attorney, Diplomat
All altruism springs from putting yourself in the other person’s place.
—Harry Emerson Fosdick (1878–1969) American Baptist Minister
The kindest thing you can do for the people you care about is to become a happy, joyous person.
—Brian Tracy (b.1944) American Author, Motivational Speaker
Don’t be yourself – be someone a little nicer.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
It is one of the beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another, without helping himself.
—Gamaliel Bailey (1807–59) American Journalist
Kindness is wisdom.
—Philip James Bailey (1816–1902) English Poet
Kindness is a language which the blind can see and the deaf can hear.
—Anonymous
I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer not neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
—Unknown
Live in my heart and pay no rent.
—Samuel Lover (1797–1868) Anglo-Irish Writer, Artist, Songwriter
If a man be gracious to strangers, it shows that he is a citizen of the world, and his heart is no island, cut off from other islands, but a continent that joins them.
—Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English Philosopher
Real generosity is doing something nice for someone who’ll never find out.
—Frank A. Clark
Waste no more time talking about great souls and how they should be. Become one yourself!
—Marcus Aurelius (121–180) Emperor of Rome, Stoic Philosopher
The human being who lives only for himself finally reaps nothing but unhappiness. Selfishness corrodes. Unselfishness ennobles, satisfies. Don’t put off the joy derivable from doing helpful, kindly things for others.
—B. C. Forbes (1880–1954) Scottish-born American Journalist, Publisher
To give and then not feel that one has given is the very best of all ways of giving.
—Max Beerbohm (1872–1956) British Essayist, Caricaturist, Novelist
Unless we give part of ourselves away, unless we can live with other people and understand them and help them, we are missing the most essential part of our own lives.
—Harold Taylor
The golden rule is of no use whatsoever unless you realize that it is your move.
—Frank Hall Crane (1873–1948) American Stage and Film Actor, Director
Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world. So long as you can sweeten another’s pain, life is not in vain.
—Helen Keller (1880–1968) American Author
I have learned silence from the talkative; tolerance from the intolerant and kindness from the unkind. I should not be ungrateful to those teachers.
—Kahlil Gibran (1883–1931) Lebanese-born American Philosopher, Poet, Painter, Theologian, Sculptor
People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents.
—Andrew Carnegie (1835–1919) Scottish-American Industrialist
Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light.
—Albert Schweitzer (1875–1965) French Theologian, Musician, Philosopher, Physician
Always be a little kinder than necessary.
—J. M. Barrie (1860–1937) Scottish Novelist, Dramatist
A part of kindness consists in loving people more than they deserve.
—Joseph Joubert (1754–1824) French Writer, Moralist
Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though it were his own.
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749–1832) German Poet
A second quality of mature spirituality is kindness. It is based on a fundamental notion of self-acceptance….
—Jack Kornfield (b.1945) American Buddhist Teacher
The race of mankind would perish, did they cease to aid each other. From the time that the mother binds the child’s head till the moment that some kind assistant wipes the death-damp from the brow of the dying, we cannot exist without mutual help. All, therefore, that need aid have a right to ask it from their fellow-mortals; no one who holds the power of granting can refuse it without guilt.
—Walter Scott (1771–1832) Scottish Novelist, Poet, Playwright, Lawyer
All that is human must retrograde if it does not advance.
—Edward Gibbon (1737–94) English Historian, Politician
There’s good in everybody. Boost. Don’t knock.
—Warren G. Harding (1865–1923) American Head of State, Businessperson
Make yourself necessary to somebody.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–82) American Philosopher
In the intercourse of social life, it is by little acts of watchful kindness recurring daily and hourly, by words, tones, gestures, looks, that affection is won and preserved.
—George Augustus Henry Sala (1828–95) British Journalist
We ought to do good to others as simply and naturally as a horse runs, or a bee makes honey, or a vine bears grapes season after season without thinking of the grapes it has borne.
—Marcus Aurelius (121–180) Emperor of Rome, Stoic Philosopher
Kind hearts are the gardens,
Kind thoughts are the roots,
Kind words are the flowers,
Kind deeds are the fruits.
Take care of your garden
And keep out the weeds,
Fill it with sunshine
Kind words and kind deeds.
—Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807–82) American Poet, Educator, Academic
Biblical orthodoxy without compassion is surely the ugliest thing in the world.
—Francis Schaeffer (1912–84) American Presbyterian Religious Leader, Theologian, Philosopher
True religion is the life we lead, not the creed we profess.
—Louis Nizer (1902–1994) American Lawyer, Author
The everyday kindness of the back roads more than makes up for the acts of greed in the headlines.
—Charles Kuralt (1934–97) American Journalist, TV Personality