The secret of happiness is not in doing what one likes, but in liking what one does.
—J. M. Barrie (1860–1937) Scottish Novelist, Dramatist
Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.
—Benjamin Disraeli (1804–81) British Head of State
The happier the moment the shorter.
—Pliny the Elder (23–79 CE) Roman Scholar, Encyclopedist
Best to live lightly, unthinkingly.
—Sophocles (495–405 BCE) Ancient Greek Dramatist
The habit of being uniformly considerate toward others will bring increased happiness to you.
—Grenville Kleiser (1868–1935) Canadian Author
If all were gentle and contented as sheep, all would be as feeble and helpless.
—John Lancaster Spalding (1840–1916) American Catholic Clergyman, Educator, Essayist, Biographer
The opposite of love is indifference, and the opposite of happiness is—here’s the clincher—boredom.
—Tim Ferriss (b.1977) American Self-help Author
Now and then it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy.
—Guillaume Apollinaire (1880–1918) Italian-born French Poet, Playwright
The main obligation is to amuse yourself.
—S. J. Perelman (1904–79) American Humorist, Author, Screenwriter
All times are beautiful for those who maintain joy within them; but there is no happy or favorable time for those with disconsolate or orphaned souls.
—Rosalia de Castro (1837–1885) Galician Romanticist Writer, Poet
My advice to you is not to inquire why or whither, but just enjoy your ice cream while it’s on your plate.
—Thornton Wilder (1897–1975) American Novelist, Playwright
Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.
—Anthony de Mello (1931–87) Indian-born American Theologian
To have joy one must share it. Happiness was born a twin.
—Lord Byron (George Gordon Byron) (1788–1824) English Romantic Poet
Happiness is always a by-product. It is probably a matter of temperament, and for anything I know it may be glandular. But it is not something that can be demanded from life, and if you are not happy you had better stop worrying about it and see what treasures you can pluck from your own brand of unhappiness.
—Robertson Davies (1913–95) Canada Journalist, Playwright, Academic, Critic, Novelist
The road to happiness lies in two simple principles: find what it is that interests you and that you can do well, and when you find it, put your whole soul into it — every bit of energy and ambition and natural ability you have.
—John D. Rockefeller III (1906–78) American Philanthropist
Happiness is like the penny candy of our youth: we got a lot more for our money back when we had no money.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
First health, then wealth, then pleasure, and do not owe anything to anybody.
—Catherine II of Russia (1729–96) Russian Empress
A man’s as miserable as he thinks he is.
—Seneca the Younger (Lucius Annaeus Seneca) (c.4 BCE–65 CE) Roman Stoic Philosopher, Statesman, Tragedian
No man can tell whether he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has.
—Henry Ward Beecher (1813–87) American Clergyman, Writer
If you have nothing else to do, look at yourself and see if there isn’t something close at hand that you can improve. It may make you wealthy, although it is more likely it will make you happy.
—George Madison Adams (1837–1920) American Politician, Military Leader
Happiness makes up in height what it lacks in length.
—Robert Frost (1874–1963) American Poet
Be a good human being, a warm-hearted affectionate person. That is my fundamental belief. Having a sense of caring, a feeling of compassion will bring happiness of peace of mind to oneself and automatically create a positive atmosphere.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
Training and managing your own mind is the most important skill you could ever own, in terms of both happiness and success.
—T. Harv Eker (b.1954) American Motivational Speaker, Lecturer, Author
Our happiness depends on the habit of mind we cultivate. So practice happy thinking every day. Cultivate the merry heart, develop the happiness habit, and life will become a continual feast.
—Norman Vincent Peale (1898–1993) American Clergyman, Self-Help Author
I am a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy.
—J. D. Salinger (1919–2010) American Novelist, Short-story Writer
A multitude of small delights constitute happiness.
—Charles Baudelaire (1821–67) French Poet, Art Critic, Essayist, Translator
There are two things to aim at in life: first, to get what you want; and, after that, to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second.
—Logan Pearsall Smith (1865–1946) American-British Essayist, Bibliophile
When neither their property nor their honor is touched, the majority of men live content.
—Niccolo Machiavelli (1469–1527) Florentine Political Philosopher
The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.
—Eric Hoffer (1902–83) American Philosopher, Author
Happy people plan actions, they don’t plan results.
—Dennis Wholey
Not only is there a right to be happy, there is a duty to be happy. So much sadness exists in the world that we are all under obligation to contribute as much joy as lies within our powers.
—John Sutherland Bonnell (1893–1992) American Preacher
How bitter a thing it is to look into happiness through another man’s eyes!
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616) British Playwright
Of all created comforts, God is the lender; you are the borrower, not the owner.
—Samuel Rutherford (1600–61) Scottish Presbyterian Theologian, Author
The world is full of people looking for spectacular happiness while they snub contentment.
—Doug Larson (1926–2017) American Columnist
My crown is in my heart, not on my head, Nor decked with diamonds and Indian stones, Nor to be seen: My crown is called content: A crown it is, that seldom kings enjoy.
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616) British Playwright
Life begins on the other side of despair.
—Jean-Paul Sartre (1905–80) French Philosopher, Playwright, Novelist, Screenwriter, Political Activist
In theory there is a possibility of perfect happiness: To believe in the indestructible element within one, and not to strive towards it.
—Franz Kafka (1883–1924) Austrian Novelist, Short Story Writer
The Greeks said grandly in their tragic phrase, “Let no one be called happy till his death”; to which I would add, “Let no one, till his death, be called unhappy.”
—Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806–61) English Poet
The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances. We carry the seeds of the one or the other about with us in our minds wherever we go.
—Martha Washington (1731–1802) American First Lady
Blessedness consists in the accomplishment of our desires, and in our having only regular desires.
—Augustine of Hippo (354–430) Roman-African Christian Philosopher
In order to be utterly happy, the only thing necessary is to refrain from comparing this moment with other moments in the past, which I often did not fully enjoy because I was comparing them with other moments of the future.
—Andre Gide (1869–1951) French Novelist
There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy. By being happy, we sow anonymous benefits upon the world, which remain unknown even to ourselves, or when they are disclosed, surprise nobody so much as the benefactor.
—Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–94) Scottish Novelist
Grief can take care of itself; but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910) American Humorist
Life’s greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved.
—Victor Hugo (1802–85) French Novelist
I had rather have a fool to make me merry than experience to make me sad.
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616) British Playwright
True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.
—Antoine de Saint-Exupery (1900–44) French Novelist, Aviator
The best advice on the art of being happy is about as easy to follow as advice to be well when one is sick.
—Sophie Swetchine (1782–1857) Russian Mystic, Writer
As a well-spent day brings happy sleep, so a life well spent brings happy death.
—Leonardo da Vinci (1452–1519) Italian Polymath, Painter, Sculptor, Inventor, Architect
Happy the man, and happy he alone,
He who can call today his own;
He who, secure within, can say,
Tomorrow, do thy worst, for I have lived today.
—John Dryden (1631–1700) English Poet, Literary Critic, Playwright
Every period of life is obliged to borrow its happiness from time to come.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
It has long been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important.
—Arthur Conan Doyle (1859–1930) Scottish Writer
Set happiness before you as an end, no matter in what guise of wealth, or fame, or oblivion even, and you will not attain it. — But renounce it and seek the pleasure of God, and that instant is the birth of your own.
—Arthur Sherburne Hardy (1847–1930) American Engineer, Educator, Editor, Diplomat, Novelist, Poet
I am learning to understand rather than immediately judge or to be judged. I cannot blindly follow the crowd and accept their approach. I will not allow myself to indulge in the usual manipulating game of role creation. Fortunately for me, my self-knowledge has transcended that and I have come to understand that life is best to be lived and not to be conceptualized. I am happy because I am growing daily and I am honestly not knowing where the limit lies. To be certain, every day there can be a revelation or a new discovery. I treasure the memory of the past misfortunes. It has added more to my bank of fortitude.
—Bruce Lee (1940–73) American Martial Artist, Actor, Philosopher
Happiness is like a cat. If you try to coax it or call it, it will avoid you; it will never come. But if you pay not attention to it and go about your business, you’ll find it rubbing against your legs and jumping into your lap.
—William Bennett (b.1943) American Politician, Political Theorist, Government Official
We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it.
—George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950) Irish Playwright
Instinct teaches us to look for happiness outside ourselves.
—Blaise Pascal (1623–62) French Mathematician, Physicist, Theologian
The secret of living is to find a pivot, the pivot of a concept on which you can make your stand.
—Luigi Pirandello (1867–1936) Italian Dramatist, Novelist, Short Story Writer, Author
We are here not to get all we can out of life for ourselves, but to try to make the lives of others happier.
—William Osler (1849–1919) Canadian Physician
Which 20% of sources are causing 80% of my problems and unhappiness? Which 20% of sources are resulting in 80% of my desired outcomes and happiness?
—Tim Ferriss (b.1977) American Self-help Author
Seek happiness for its own sake, and you will not find it; seek for duty, and happiness will follow as the shadow comes with the sunshine.
—Tryon Edwards American Theologian
Act happy, feel happy, be happy, without a reason in the world. Then you can love, and do what you will.
—Dan Millman (b.1946) American Children’s Books Writer, Sportsperson
No man is happy who does not think himself so.
—Publilius Syrus (fl.85–43 BCE) Syrian-born Roman Latin Writer
Silence is the perfectest herald of joy. I were but little happy if I could say how much.
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616) British Playwright
The human spirit needs to accomplish, to achieve, to triumph to be happy.
—Ben Stein (b.1944) American Lawyer, Writer, Economist, Humorist
There is only one way to achieve happiness on this terrestrial ball, and that is to have either a clear conscience, or none at all.
—Ogden Nash (1902–71) American Writer of Sophisticated Light Verse
Happiness is good health and a bad memory.
—Ingrid Bergman (1915–82) Swedish Actor
For most of life, nothing wonderful happens. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and finishing your work and sitting down to a meal with family or friends, then the chances are you’re not going to be very happy. If someone bases his happiness or unhappiness on major events like a great new job, huge amounts of money, a flawlessly happy marriage or a trip to Paris, that person isn’t going to be happy much of the time. If, on the other hand, happiness depends on a good breakfast, flowers in the yard, a drink or a nap, then we are more likely to live with quite a bit of happiness.
—Andy Rooney (b.1919) American Writer, Humorist, TV Personality
Happiness is a by-product. You cannot pursue it by itself.
—Sam Levenson (1911–80) American Humorist, Writer, TV Personality, Journalist
The happiness of too many days is often destroyed by trying to accomplish too much in one day. We would do well to follow a common rule for our daily lives – DO LESS, AND DO IT BETTER.
—Dale Turner (1917–2006) American Priest, Columnist, Epigrammist
Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
—Robert A. Heinlein (1907–88) American Novelist, Short story Author, Essayist, Screenwriter
The happy think a lifetime short, but to the unhappy one night can be an eternity.
—Lucian (c.120–c.200 CE) Greek Satirist, Rhetorician, Writer
Happiness comes from within a man, from some curious adjustment to life.
—Hugh Walpole (1884–1941) English Novelist, Short Story Writer, Dramatist
The happy people are those who are producing something; the bored people are those who are consuming much and producing nothing.
—William Ralph Inge (1860–1954) English Anglican Clergyman, Priest, Mystic
When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
—Helen Keller (1880–1968) American Author
Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though it were his own.
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749–1832) German Poet
Happiness depends upon ourselves.
—Aristotle (384BCE–322BCE) Ancient Greek Philosopher, Scholar
I finally figured out the only reason to be alive is to enjoy it.
—Rita Mae Brown (b.1944) American Writer, Feminist
Don’t be a cynic and disconsolate preacher. Don’t bewail and bemoan. Omit the negative propositions. Nerve us with incessant affirmatives. Don’t waste yourself in rejection, nor bark against the bad, but chant the beauty of the good. When that is spoken which has a right to be spoken, the chatter and the criticism will stop. Set down nothing that will help somebody.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–82) American Philosopher
Contempt for happiness is usually contempt for other people’s happiness, and is an elegant disguise for hatred of the human race.
—Bertrand A. Russell (1872–1970) British Philosopher, Mathematician, Social Critic
Wealth I ask not, hope nor love, nor a friend to know me; all I ask, the heavens above, and the road below me.
—Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–94) Scottish Novelist
Those who seek happiness miss it, and those who discuss it, lack it.
—Holbrook Jackson (1874–1948) British Journalist, Writer, Publisher
Point me out the happy man and I will point you out either egotism, selfishness, evil –or else an absolute ignorance.
—Graham Greene (1904–91) British Novelist, Playwright, Short Story Writer
The happy have whole days,
and those they choose.
The unhappy have but hours,
and those they lose.
—Colley Cibber (1671–1757) English Playwright, Poet, Actor
Always do one thing less than you think you can do.
—Bernard M. Baruch (1870–1965) American Financier, Economic Consultant
Existence is a strange bargain. Life owes us little; we owe it everything. The only true happiness comes from squandering ourselves for a purpose.
—William Cowper (1731–1800) English Anglican Poet, Hymn writer
The happiness of this life depends less on what befalls you than the way in which you take it.
—Elbert Hubbard (1856–1915) American Writer, Publisher, Artist, Philosopher
Don’t say, “I am depressed”. If you want to say, “It is depressed,” that’s all right. If you want to say that depression is there, that’s fine; if you want to say gloominess is there, that’s fine. But not: I am gloomy. You’re defining yourself in terms of the feeling. That’s your illusion; that’s your mistake. There is a depression there right now, but let it be, leave it alone. It will pass. Everything passes, everything. Your depressions and your thrills have nothing to do with happiness. Those are swings of the pendulum. If you seek kicks or thrills, get ready for depression. Do you want your drug? Get ready for the hangover. One end of the pendulum swings over to the other.
—Anthony de Mello (1931–87) Indian-born American Theologian
Again and again I therefore admonish my students in Europe and America: Don’t aim at success — the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run — in the long-run, I say! — success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it.
—Viktor Frankl (1905–97) Austrian Psychiatrist, Psychotherapist
The fact is always obvious much too late, but the most singular difference between happiness and joy is that happiness is a solid and joy a liquid.
—J. D. Salinger (1919–2010) American Novelist, Short-story Writer
Laughter is the best medicine.
—Common Proverb
As we are now living in an eternity, the time to be happy is today.
—Grenville Kleiser (1868–1935) Canadian Author
I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time.
—Jack London (1876–1916) American Novelist
Happiness is something you get as a by-product in the process of making something else.
—Aldous Huxley (1894–1963) English Humanist, Pacifist, Essayist, Short Story Writer, Satirist
Human felicity is produced not as much by great pieces of good fortune that seldom happen as by little advantages that occur every day.
—Benjamin Franklin (1706–90) American Political Leader, Inventor, Diplomat
If we cannot live so as to be happy, let us at least live so as to deserve it.
—Immanuel Hermann Fichte (1796–1879) German Philosopher
The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence, but in the mastery, of his passions.
—Alfred, Lord Tennyson (1809–92) British Poet
Do not worry; eat three square meals a day; say your prayers; be courteous to your creditors; keep your digestion good; exercise; go slow and easy. Maybe there are other things your special case requires to make you happy, but my friend, these I reckon will give you a good lift.
—Abraham Lincoln (1809–65) American Head of State
To be happy you must forget yourself. — Learn benevolence; it is the only cure of a morbid temper.
—Edward Bulwer-Lytton, 1st Baron Lytton (1803–73) British Novelist, Poet, Politician
It is essential to his happiness that he should continually advance.
—Wallace Wattles (1860–1911) American New Thought Author
Every now and then, when the world sits just right, a gentle breath of heaven fills my soul with delight … .
—Hazelmarie ‘Mattie’ Elliott
A man can do only what he can do. But if he does that each day he can sleep at night and do it again the next day.
—Albert Schweitzer (1875–1965) French Theologian, Musician, Philosopher, Physician
To be of use in the world is the only way to happiness.
—Hans Christian Andersen (1805–75) Danish Author, Poet, Short Story Writer
Happiness lies first of all in health.
—George William Curtis (1824–92) American Essayist, Public Speaker, Editor, Author
Happiness quite unshared can scarcely be called happiness; it has no taste.
—Emily Bronte (1818–48) English Novelist, Poet
Indolence is a delightful but distressing state; we must be doing something to be happy. Action is no less necessary than thought to the instinctive tendencies of the human frame.
—William Hazlitt (1778–1830) English Essayist
If you are not happy here and now, you never will be.
—Taisen Deshimaru (1914–82) Japanese Buddhist Teacher
Happy is the son whose faith in his mother remains unchallenged.
—Louisa May Alcott (1832–88) American Novelist
We must have courage to bet on our ideas, on the calculated risk, and to act. Everyday living requires courage if life is to be effective and bring happiness.
—Maxwell Maltz (1899–1975) American Surgeon, Motivational Writer
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?
—Albert Camus (1913–60) Algerian-born French Philosopher, Dramatist, Essayist, Novelist, Author
Happiness includes chiefly the idea of satisfaction after full honest effort. No one can possibly be satisfied and no one can be happy who feels that in some paramount affairs he failed to take up the challenge of life.
—Arnold Bennett (1867–1931) British Novelist, Playwright, Critic
Happiness does not lie in happiness, but in the achievement of it.
—Fyodor Dostoyevsky (1821–81) Russian Novelist, Essayist, Writer
Pleasure is very seldom found where it is sought. Our brightest blazes of gladness are commonly kindled by unexpected sparks. The flowers which scatter their odours from time to time in the paths of life, grow up without culture from seeds scattered by chance. Nothing is more hopeless than a scheme of merriment.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
Rich bachelors should be heavily taxed. It is not fair that some men should be happier than others.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish Poet, Playwright
One joy shatters a hundred griefs.
—Chinese Proverb
When unhappy, one doubts everything; when happy, one doubts nothing.
—Philibert Joseph Roux (1780–1854) French Surgeon
We must laugh before we are happy, for fear of dying without having laughed at all.
—Jean de La Bruyere (1645–96) French Satiric Moralist, Author
A great obstacle to happiness is to expect too much happiness.
—Bernard le Bovier de Fontenelle (1657–1757) French Essayist, Polymath, Philosopher
Work and live to serve others, to leave the world a little better than you found it and garner for yourself as much peace of mind as you can. This is happiness.
—David Sarnoff (1891–1972) American Broadcaster, Businessman
Happiness is the sense that one matters. Happiness is an abiding enthusiasm. Happiness is single-mindedness. Happiness is whole-heartedness. Happiness is a by-product. Happiness is faith.
—Sam Shoemaker (1893–1963) American Episcopal Priest
If one only wished to be happy, this could be easily accomplished; but we wish to be happier than other people, and this is always difficult, for we believe others to be happier than they are.
—Montesquieu (1689–1755) French Political Philosopher, Jurist
Yes, there is a Nirvanah; it is in leading your sheep to a green pasture, and in putting your child to sleep, and in writing the last line of your poem.
—Khalil Gibran (1883–1931) Lebanese-born American Philosopher, Poet, Painter, Theologian, Sculptor
Human happiness seems to consist in three ingredients; action, pleasure, and indolence. And though these ingredients ought to be mixed in different proportions, according to the disposition of the person, yet no one ingredient can be entirely wanting without destroying in some measure the relish of the whole composition.
—David Hume (1711–76) Scottish Philosopher, Historian
To live and let live, without clamor for distinction or recognition; to wait on divine Love; to write truth first on the tablet of one’s own heart–this is the sanity and perfection of living, and my human ideal.
—Mary Baker Eddy (1821–1910) American Christian Science Religious Leader, Humanitarian, Writer
To be happy, one must have a good stomach and a bad heart.
—Bernard le Bovier de Fontenelle (1657–1757) French Essayist, Polymath, Philosopher
Being happy is something you have to learn. I often surprise myself by Saying, “Wow, this is it. I guess I’m happy. I’ve got a home that I love. A career that I love. I’m even feeling more and more at peace with myself”. If there’s something else to happiness, let me know. I’m ambitious for that, too.
—Harrison Ford (b.1942) American Actor
Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.
—Carl Gustav Jung (1875–1961) Swiss Psychologist, Psychiatrist, Philosopher
Pleasure only starts once the worm has got into the fruit; to become delightful, happiness must be tainted with poison.
—Georges Bataille (1897–1962) French Essayist, Intellectual
If you want happiness for an hour — take a nap. If you want happiness for a day — go fishing. If you want happiness for a month — get married. If you want happiness for a year — inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime — help someone else.
—Chinese Proverb
Life finds its purpose and fulfillment in the expansion of happiness.
—Maharishi Mahesh Yogi (1914–2008) Indian Hindu Religious Leader
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.
—Marcel Proust (1871–1922) French Novelist
The greatest happiness of the greatest number is the foundation of morals and legislation.
—Jeremy Bentham (1748–1832) British Philosopher, Economist
The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been.
—Alan Ashley-Pitt (Francis Phillip Wernig) American Writer, Aphorist
We must learn that to enjoy happiness we must conscientiously and continuously seek to spread happiness. Selfishness is suicidal to happiness.
—B. C. Forbes (1880–1954) Scottish-born American Journalist, Publisher
Happiness is like the statue of Isis, whose veil no mortal ever raised.
—Letitia Elizabeth Landon (1802–38) English Poet, Novelist
The best things in life are nearest: Breath in your nostrils, light in your eyes, flowers at your feet, duties at your hand, the path of right just before you. Then do not grasp at the stars, but do life’s plain, common work as it comes, certain that daily duties and daily bread are the sweetest things in life.
—Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–94) Scottish Novelist
Whoever does not regard what he has as most ample wealth is unhappy, though he is master of the world.
—Epicurus (c.341–270 BCE) Greek Philosopher
There is no end of craving. Hence contentment alone is the best way to happiness. Therefore, acquire contentment.
—Sivananda Saraswati (1887–1963) Indian Hindu Spiritual Teacher
Happiness doesn’t depend on what we have, but it does depend on how we feel towards what we have. We can be happy with little and miserable with much.
—William D. Hoard (1836–1918) American Elected Rep
Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.
—Bertrand A. Russell (1872–1970) British Philosopher, Mathematician, Social Critic
Happiness is that state of consciousness which proceeds from the achievement of one’s values.
—Ayn Rand (1905–82) Russian-born American Novelist, Philosopher, Playwright, Screenwriter
To be happy means to be free, not from pain or fear, but from care or anxiety.
—W. H. Auden (1907–73) British-born American Poet, Dramatist
Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish Poet, Playwright
He is happy whose circumstances suit his temper; but he is more excellent who can suit his temper to any circumstances.
—David Hume (1711–76) Scottish Philosopher, Historian
The principle of happiness should be like the principle of virtue: it should not be dependent of things, but be a part of personality (and character).
—William Lyon Phelps (1865–1943) American Author, Critic, Scholar
A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives you roses.
—Chinese Proverb
Happiness radiates like the fragrance from a flower, and draws all good things toward you. Allow your love to nourish yourself as well as others. Do not strain after the needs of life. It is sufficient to be quietly alert and aware of them. In this way life proceeds more naturally and effortlessly. Life is here to Enjoy!
—Maharishi Mahesh Yogi (1914–2008) Indian Hindu Religious Leader
I look at what I have not and think myself unhappy; others look at what I have and think me happy.
—Philibert Joseph Roux (1780–1854) French Surgeon
Hope is itself a species of happiness, and, perhaps, the chief happiness which this world affords.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
Money is human happiness in the abstract; and so the man who is no longer capable of enjoying such happiness in the concrete, sets his whole heart on money.
—Arthur Schopenhauer (1788–1860) German Philosopher
He’s simply got the instinct for being unhappy highly developed.
—Saki (Hector Hugh Munro) (1870–1916) British Short Story Writer, Satirist, Historian
We deem those happy who from the experience of life have learned to bear its ills, without being overcome by them.
—Juvenal (c.60–c.136 CE) Roman Poet
I am more and more convinced that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves.
—Wilhelm von Humboldt (1767–1835) German Philosopher, Linguist, Statesman
Happiness is not so much in having as sharing. We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
—Norman MacEwen (1881–1953) British Military Leader
The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage.
—Thucydides (c.455?c.400 BCE) Greek Historian
Happiness is the only sanction of life; where happiness fails, existence remains a mad and lamentable experiment.
—George Santayana (1863–1952) Spanish-American Poet, Philosopher
No sooner is it a little calmer with me than it is almost too calm, as though I have the true feeling of myself only when I am unbearably unhappy.
—Franz Kafka (1883–1924) Austrian Novelist, Short Story Writer
The true object of all human life is play. Earth is a task garden; heaven is a playground.
—G. K. Chesterton (1874–1936) English Journalist, Novelist, Essayist, Poet
The man who is aware of himself is henceforward independent; and he is never bored, and life is only too short, and he is steeped through and through with a profound yet temperate happiness.
—Virginia Woolf (1882–1941) English Novelist
The only true happiness comes from squandering ourselves for a purpose.
—John Mason Brown (1900–69) American Columnist, Journalist, Author
There is no way to happiness, happiness is the way.
—Thich Nhat Hanh (b.1926) Vietnamese Buddhist Religious Leader, Teacher, Author, Peace Activist
Happiness is a form of courage.
—Holbrook Jackson (1874–1948) British Journalist, Writer, Publisher
Happiness seems to require a modicum of external prosperity.
—Aristotle (384BCE–322BCE) Ancient Greek Philosopher, Scholar
The good life, as I conceive it, is a happy life. I do not mean that if you are good you will be happy; I mean that if you are happy you will be good.
—Bertrand A. Russell (1872–1970) British Philosopher, Mathematician, Social Critic
Happiness is a matter of one’s most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self.
—Iris Murdoch (1919–99) British Novelist, Playwright, Philosopher
There is but one way to tranquillity of mind and happiness; let this, therefore, be always ready at hand with thee, both when thou wakest early in the morning, and all the day long, and when thou goest late to sleep, to account no external things thine own, but commit all these to God.
—Epictetus (55–135) Ancient Greek Philosopher
Those who take up any subject with an open mind, willing to learn anything that will contribute to their advancement, comfort and happiness, are wise.
—Roger McDonald (b.1941) Australian Novelist, Poet, Screenwriter, Writer
Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.
—Nathaniel Hawthorne (1804–64) American Novelist, Short Story Writer
To attain happiness in another world we need only to believe something, while to secure it in this world we must needs do something.
—Charlotte Perkins Gilman (1860–1935) American Sociologist, Novelist, Short Story Writer, Poet, Feminist
We are seldom happy with what we now have, but would go to pieces if we lost any part of it.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it.
—Fyodor Dostoyevsky (1821–81) Russian Novelist, Essayist, Writer
Joy descends gently upon us like the evening dew, and does not patter down like a hailstorm.
—Jean Paul (1763–1825) German Novelist, Humorist
The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of oneself to others.
—Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1881–1955) French Jesuit Philosopher, Paleontologist
The secret of happiness is to find a congenial monotony.
—V. S. Pritchett (1900–97) British Short Story Writer, Biographer, Memoirist, Literary Critic
This is my “depressed stance.” When you’re depressed, it makes a lot of difference how you stand. The worst thing you can do is straighten up and hold your head high because then you’ll start to feel better. If you’re going to get any joy out of being depressed, you’ve got to stand like this.
—Charles M. Schulz (1922–2000) American Cartoonist, Writer, Artist
It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.
—Charles Spurgeon (1834–92) English Baptist Preacher
Perfect happiness is the absence of striving for happiness.
—Zhuang Zhou (c.369–c.286 BCE) Chinese Taoist Philosopher
No man should desire to be happy who is not at the same time holy. He should spend his efforts in seeking to know and do the will of God, leaving to Christ the matter of how happy he should be.
—A. W. Tozer (1897–1963) American Christian Pastor, Preacher, Author, Editor
People who postpone happiness are like children who try chasing rainbows in an effort to find the pot of gold at the rainbow’s end… Your life will never be fulfilled until you are happy here and now.
—Ken Keyes, Jr. (1921–95) American Motivational Speaker, Author, Lecturer
I must accept life unconditionally. Most people ask for happiness on condition. Happiness can only be felt if you don’t set any condition.
—Arthur Rubinstein (1887–1982) Polish-born American Composer, Musician
The object of living is work, experience, and happiness. There is joy in work. All that money can do is buy us someone else’s work in exchange for our own. There is no happiness except in the realization that we have accomplished something.
—Henry Ford (1863–1947) American Businessperson, Engineer
To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.
—Robert Muller
A life of ease is a difficult pursuit.
—William Cowper (1731–1800) English Anglican Poet, Hymn writer
There is no greater joy than that of feeling oneself a creator. The triumph of life is expressed by creation.
—Henri Bergson (1859–1941) French Philosopher, Evolutionist
The grand essentials of happiness in this life are: Something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.
—George Washington Burnap (1802–59) American Unitarian Priest
Happiness is like those palaces in fairy tales whose gates are guarded by dragons: we must fight in order to conquer it.
—Alexandre Dumas, pere (1802–1870) French Novelist, Playwright
Labor and trouble one can always get through alone, but it takes two to be glad.
—Henrik Ibsen (1828–1906) Norwegian Playwright
It is impossible for a man to be made happy by putting him in a happy place, unless he be first in a happy state.
—Benjamin Whichcote (1609–83) British Anglican Priest, Theologian, Philosopher
Celebrate the happiness that friends are always giving; make every day a holiday and celebrate just living.
—Amanda Bradley American Poet
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Indian Hindu Political leader
Happiness serves hardly any other purpose than to make unhappiness possible.
—Marcel Proust (1871–1922) French Novelist
Unquestionably, it is possible to do without happiness; it is done involuntarily by nineteen-twentieths of mankind.
—John Stuart Mill (1806–73) English Philosopher, Economist
As the great Confucius said, “The one who would be in constant happiness must frequently change”. Flow. But we keep looking back, don’t we? We cling to things in the past and cling to things in the present…Do you want to enjoy a symphony? Don’t hold on to a few bars of the music. Don’t hold on to a couple of notes. Let them pass, let them flow. The whole enjoyment of a symphony lies in your readiness to allow the notes to pass…
—Anthony de Mello (1931–87) Indian-born American Theologian
Happiness is often the result of being too busy to be miserable.
—Unknown
Man’s real life is happy, chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so.
—Edgar Allan Poe (1809–49) American Poet
If you always do what interests you, at least one person is pleased.
—Katharine Hepburn (1907–2003) American Actor, TV Personality
To live we must conquer incessantly, we must have the courage to be happy.
—Henri Frederic Amiel (1821–81) Swiss Moral Philosopher, Poet, Critic
We are long before we are convinced that happiness is never to be found; and each believes it possessed by others, to keep alive the hope of obtaining it for himself.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.
—Denis Waitley (b.1933) American Motivational Speaker, Author
The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.
—James Oppenheim (1882–1932) American Poet, Novelist, Editor
True happiness is to understand our duties toward God and man; to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence on the future; not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears, but to rest satisfied with what we have, which is abundantly sufficient.
—Seneca the Younger (Lucius Annaeus Seneca) (c.4 BCE–65 CE) Roman Stoic Philosopher, Statesman, Tragedian
Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
—Robert Brault
Happiness walks on busy feet.
—Anonymous
A single sunbeam is enough to drive away many shadows.
—Francis of Assisi (1181-1226) Italian Monk, Founder of the Franciscan Order
Happiness is neither virtue nor pleasure nor this thing nor that but simply growth, We are happy when we are growing.
—William Butler Yeats (1865–1939) Irish Poet, Dramatist
No thoroughly occupied man was ever yet very miserable.
—Letitia Elizabeth Landon (1802–38) English Poet, Novelist
What can be added to the happiness of a man who is in health, out of debt, and has a clear conscience?
—Adam Smith (1723–90) Scottish Philosopher, Economist
All men have happiness as their object: there are no exceptions. However different the means they employ, they aim at the same end.
—Blaise Pascal (1623–62) French Mathematician, Physicist, Theologian
Happiness is the longing for repetition.
—Milan Kundera (b.1929) Czech Novelist
Happiness is not in our circumstances, but in ourselves. It is not something we see, like a rainbow, or feel, like the heat of a fire. Happiness is something we are.
—John B. Sheerin (1907–92) American Catholic Columnist
Without pleasure man would live like a fool and soon die.
—Pierre Beaumarchais (1732–99) French Inventor, Diplomat, Musician, Fugitive, Revolutionary
The truth is that all of us attain the greatest success and happiness possible in this life whenever we use our native capacities to their greatest extent.
—Smiley Blanton
Happiness is a Swedish sunset; it is there for all, but most of us look the other way and lose it.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910) American Humorist
For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–82) American Philosopher
Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.
—Helen Keller (1880–1968) American Author
It takes great wit and interest and energy to be happy. The pursuit of happiness is a great activity. One must be open and alive. It is the greatest feat man has to accomplish.
—Robert Henri (1865–1929) American Painter, Teacher
Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn’t stop to enjoy it.
—William Feather (1889–1981) American Publisher, Author
Unhappy is the man who is not so much dissatisfied with what he has as with what the other fellow possesses.
—Chauncey Depew (1834–1928) American Lawyer, Politician, Raconteur
I believe that the very purpose of our life is to seek happiness. That is clear. Whether one believes in religion or not, whether one believes in this religion or that religion, we all are seeking something better in life. So, I think, the very motion of our life is towards happiness.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
The great happiness of life, I find, after all, to consist in the regular discharge of some mechanical duty.
—Friedrich Schiller (1759–1805) German Poet, Dramatist
To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others.
—Albert Camus (1913–60) Algerian-born French Philosopher, Dramatist, Essayist, Novelist, Author
I am still determined to be cheerful and happy,
in whatever situation I may be; for I have also
learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness
or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances.
—Martha Washington (1731–1802) American First Lady
Farms and in castles, in homes, studies, and cloisters — where sensible people manage to live relatively lusty and decent lives, as moral as they must be, as free as they may be, and as masterly as they can be. If we only knew it, this elusive arrangement is happiness.
—Erik Erikson (1902–94) German-born American Developmental Psychologist
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
—The 14th Dalai Lama (b.1935) Tibetan Buddhist Religious Leader, Civil Rights Leader, Philosopher, Author
Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.
—Abraham Lincoln (1809–65) American Head of State
It is worthy of special remark that when we are not too anxious about happiness and unhappiness, but devote ourselves to the strict and unsparing performance of duty, then happiness comes of itself.
—Wilhelm von Humboldt (1767–1835) German Philosopher, Linguist, Statesman
True happiness must arise from well-regulated affections, and an affection includes a duty.
—Mary Wollstonecraft (1759–97) English Writer, Feminist
Pleasure is a reciprocal; no one feels it who does not at the same time give it. To be pleased, one must please.
—Earl of Chesterfield (1694–1773) English Statesman, Man of Letters
The happiest people I have known in this world have been the Saints — and, after these, the men and women who get immediate and conscious enjoyment from little things.
—Hugh Walpole (1884–1941) English Novelist, Short Story Writer, Dramatist
It is one of the beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another, without helping himself.
—Gamaliel Bailey (1807–59) American Antislavery Journalist
The secret to happiness is to find a congenial monotony.
—Sean O’Casey (1880–1964) Irish Dramatist, Memoirist
It isn’t necessary to be rich and famous to be happy. It’s only necessary to be rich.
—Alan Alda (b.1936) American Actor, TV Personality, Screenwriter
No man is happy unless he believes he is.
—Publilius Syrus (fl.85–43 BCE) Syrian-born Roman Latin Writer
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.
—Katharine Hepburn (1907–2003) American Actor, TV Personality
Real happiness is cheap enough, yet how dearly we pay for its counterfeit.
—Hosea Ballou (1771–1852) American Theologian
Happiness will never be any greater than the idea we have of it.
—Maurice Maeterlinck (1862–1949) Belgian Playwright, Poet, Essayist
One of things I keep learning is that the secret of being happy is doing things for other people.
—Dick Gregory
Happiness is a small and unworthy goal for something as big and fancy as a whole lifetime, and should be taken in small doses.
—Russell Baker (1925–2019) American Journalist, Humorist, Television Host
Only action gives life strength, only moderation gives it charm.
—Charles Spurgeon (1834–92) English Baptist Preacher
In every part and corner of our life, to lose oneself is to be the gainer; to forget oneself is to be happy.
—Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–94) Scottish Novelist
Many things can make you miserable for weeks; few can bring you a whole day of happiness.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
Happiness is a thing to be practiced, like the violin.
—John Lubbock (1834–1913) English Politician, Biologist
The worst sin — perhaps the only sin — passion can commit is to be joyless.
—Dorothy L. Sayers (1893–1957) British Novelist, Playwright, Essayist, Translator, Poet
In vain do they talk of happiness who never subdued an impulse in obedience to a principle. He who never sacrificed a present to a future good, or a personal to a general one, can speak of happiness only as the blind do of colors.
—Horace Mann (1796–1859) American Educator, Politician, Educationalist
I remember hearing in a talk that the more we express our gratitude to God for our blessings, the more he will bring to our mind other blessings. The more we are aware of to be grateful for, the happier we become.
—Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994) American Mormon Religious Leader
By becoming more unhappy, we sometimes learn how to be less so.
—Sophie Swetchine (1782–1857) Russian Mystic, Writer
Few rich men own their own property. Their property owns them.
—Robert G. Ingersoll (1833–99) American Lawyer, Orator, Agnostic
Call no man happy till he is dead.
—Aeschylus (525–456 BCE) Greek Poet
There is this difference between happiness and wisdom, that he that thinks himself the happiest man really is so; but he that thinks himself the wisest is generally the greatest fool.
—Charles Caleb Colton (c.1780–1832) English Clergyman, Aphorist
To be happy is not the purpose of our being, but to deserve happiness.
—Immanuel Hermann Fichte (1796–1879) German Philosopher
“Well,” said Pooh, “what I like best,” and then he had to stop and think. Because although Eating Honey was a very good thing to do, there was a moment just before you began to eat it which was better than when you were, but he didn’t know what it was called.
—A. A. Milne (1882–1956) British Humorist, Playwright, Children’s Writer
It is not in doing what you like, but in liking what you do that is the secret of happiness.
—J. M. Barrie (1860–1937) Scottish Novelist, Dramatist
Whoever is happy will make others happy too.
—Anne Frank (1929–45) Holocaust Victim
Happy the man who has learned the cause of things and has put under his feet all fear, inexorable fate, and the noisy strife of the hell of greed.
—Virgil (70–19 BCE) Roman Poet
Your readiest desire is your path to joy even if it destroys you.
—Holbrook Jackson (1874–1948) British Journalist, Writer, Publisher
Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can.
—John Wesley (1703–91) British Methodist Religious Leader, Preacher, Theologian
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.
—Hyman Judah Schachtel (1907–90) American Jewish Religious Leader
We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
—Charles Kingsley (1819–75) English Clergyman, Academic, Historian, Novelist
I had always imagined paradise as a kind of library.
—Jorge Luis Borges (1899–1986) Argentine Writer, Essayist, Poet
When someone does something good, applaud! You will make two people happy.
—Samuel Goldwyn (1879–1974) Polish-born American Film Producer, Businessperson
Happiness is not a destination. It is a method of life.
—Burton Hillis (William E. Vaughan) (1915–77) American Columnist, Author
There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness.
—Marguerite Gardiner, Countess of Blessington (1789–1849) Irish Novelist, Writer
To do the useful thing, to say the courageous thing, to contemplate the beautiful thing: that is enough for one man’s life.
—T. S. Eliot (1888–1965) American-born British Poet, Dramatist, Literary Critic
Positiveness is a most absurd foible. If you are in the right, it lessens your triumph; if in the wrong, it adds shame to your defeat.
—Laurence Sterne (1713–68) Irish Anglican Novelist, Clergyman
‘What would you call the highest happiness?’ Wratislaw was asked. ‘The sense of competence,’ was the answer, given without hesitation.
—John Buchan, 1st Baron Tweedsmuir (1875–1940) Scottish Novelist, Politician, Diplomat
This is life! It can harden and it can exalt.
—Henrik Ibsen (1828–1906) Norwegian Playwright
Man must search for what is right, and let happiness come on its own.
—Johann Heinrich Pestalozzi (1746–1827) Swiss Educator
I can sympathize with people’s pains, but not with their pleasures. There is something curiously boring about somebody else’s happiness.
—Aldous Huxley (1894–1963) English Humanist, Pacifist, Essayist, Short Story Writer, Satirist
Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.
—Benjamin Haydon (1786–1846) English Painter, Writer
We communicate happiness to others not often by great acts of devotion and self-sacrifice, but by the absence of fault-finding and censure, by being ready to sympathize with their notions and feelings, instead of forcing them to sympathize with ours.
—Adam Clarke (1762–1832) British Methodist Scholar, Theologian, Clergyman
If you were happy every day of your life, you wouldn’t be a human being. You’d be a game show host.
—Anonymous
Service to a just cause rewards the worker with more real happiness and satisfaction than any other venture of life.
—Carrie Chapman Catt (1859–1947) American Civil Rights Leader
Happiness is the harvest of a quiet eye.
—Austin O’Malley (1858–1932) American Aphorist, Ophthalmologist
False happiness is like false money; it passes for a time as well as the true, and serves some ordinary occasions; but when it is brought to the touch, we find the lightness and alloy, and feel the loss.
—Alexander Pope (1688–1744) English Poet
Money, or even power, can never yield happiness unless it be accompanied by the goodwill of others.
—B. C. Forbes (1880–1954) Scottish-born American Journalist, Publisher
Amusement is the happiness of those who cannot think.
—Alexander Pope (1688–1744) English Poet
Manifest plainness, embrace simplicity, reduce selfishness, have few desires.
—Laozi (fl.6th Century BCE) Chinese Philosopher, Sage
Happiness lies neither in vice nor in virtue; but in the manner we appreciate the one and the other, and the choice we make pursuant to our individual organization.
—Marquis de Sade (1740–1814) French Political leader, Revolutionary, Novelist, Poet, Critic
Continuity of purpose is one of the most essential ingredients of happiness in the long run, and for most men this comes chiefly through their work.
—Bertrand A. Russell (1872–1970) British Philosopher, Mathematician, Social Critic
Remember, happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have, it depends solely upon what you think.
—Dale Carnegie (1888–1955) American Self-Help Author
To find out what one is fitted to do, and to secure an opportunity to do it, is the key to happiness.
—John Dewey (1859–1952) American Philosopher, Psychologist, Educator
Salvation of the Dawn
Look to this day,
For it is life,
The very life of life.
In its brief course lie all the truths
And realities of your existence;
The bliss of growth
The glory of action, and
The splendor of beauty;
For yesterday is but a dream
And tomorrow is only a vision,
But today well lived makes
Every yesterday a dream of happiness
And every tomorrow a vision of hope.
Look well, therefore, to this day.
Such is the salvation of the dawn.
—The Bhagavad Gita Hindu Scripture
Indeed, man wishes to be happy even when he so lives as to make happiness impossible.
—Augustine of Hippo (354–430) Roman-African Christian Philosopher
If only we’d stop trying to be happy, we’d have a pretty good time.
—Edith Wharton (1862–1937) American Novelist, Short-story Writer
Happiness seems made to be shared.
—Pierre Corneille (1606–84) French Poet, Dramatist
Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures.
—Voltaire (1694–1778) French Philosopher, Author
Suspicion of happiness is in our blood.
—E. V. Lucas (1868–1938) English Author, Historian
In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. The last is much the worst; the last is a real tragedy!
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish Poet, Playwright
Be happy while you’re living, for you’re a long time dead.
—Scottish Proverb
My creed is this: Happiness is the only good. The place to be happy is here. The time to be happy is now. The way to be happy is to make others so.
—Robert G. Ingersoll (1833–99) American Lawyer, Orator, Agnostic
Happiness doesn’t come from doing what we like to do but from liking what we have to do.
—Wilferd Arlan Peterson (1900–95) American Author
You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. The great acts of love are done by those who are habitually performing small acts of kindness. We pardon to the extent that we love. Love is knowing that even when you are alone, you will never be lonely again. & great happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved. Loved for ourselves. & even loved in spite of ourselves.
—Victor Hugo (1802–85) French Novelist
Man needs, for his happiness, not only the enjoyment of this or that, but hope and enterprise and change.
—Bertrand A. Russell (1872–1970) British Philosopher, Mathematician, Social Critic
You are forgiven for your happiness and your successes only if you generously consent to share them.
—Albert Camus (1913–60) Algerian-born French Philosopher, Dramatist, Essayist, Novelist, Author
You can make yourself happy or miserable – it’s the same amount of effort.
—Ray Bradbury (b.1920) American Novelist, Short Story Writer
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.
—Marcus Aurelius (121–180) Emperor of Rome, Stoic Philosopher
A mind always employed is always happy. This is the true secret, the grand recipe, for felicity.
—Thomas Jefferson (1743–1826) American Head of State, Lawyer
I have no money, no resources, no hopes. I am the happiest man alive. A year ago, six months ago, I thought that I was an artist. I no longer think about it, I am. Everything that was literature has fallen from me. There are no more books to be written, thank God. This then? This is not a book. This is libel, slander, and defamation of character. This is not a book, in the ordinary sense of the word. No, this is a prolonged insult, a gob of spit in the face of Art, a kick in the pants of God, Man, Destiny, Time, Love, Beauty
—Henry Miller (1891–1980) American Novelist
The highest happiness of man is to have probed what is knowable and quietly to revere what is unknowable.
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749–1832) German Poet
Happiness consists in activity. — Such is the constitution of our nature. — It is a running stream, and not a stagnant pool.
—John Mason Good (1764–1827) English Medical and Religious Writer
Happiness lies, first of all, in health.
—George William Curtis (1824–92) American Essayist, Public Speaker, Editor, Author
Happiness comes only when we push our brains and hearts to the farthest reaches of which we are capable.
—Leo Rosten (1908–97) Russian-born American Humorist, Teacher, Academic, Short Story Writer
Beauty is the promise of happiness.
—Stendhal (Marie-Henri Beyle) (1783–1842) French Writer
The only happiness a brave person ever troubles themselves in asking about, is happiness enough to get their work done.
—Thomas Carlyle (1795–1881) Scottish Historian, Essayist
Be unselfish. That is the first and final commandment for those who would be useful, and happy in their usefulness. If you think of yourself only; you cannot develop because you are choking the source of development, which is spiritual expansion through thought for others.
—George Eliot (Mary Anne Evans) (1819–80) English Novelist
It is the paradox of life that the way to miss pleasure is to seek it first. The very first condition of lasting happiness is that a life should be full of purpose, aiming at something outside self. As a matter of experience, we find that true happiness comes in seeking other things, in the manifold activities of life, in the healthful outgoing of all human powers.
—Hugo Black (1886–1971) American Politician, Jurist
Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony.
—Thomas Merton (1915–68) American Trappist Monk
I do not know of any sure way of making others happy as being so oneself.
—Arthur Helps (1813–75) English Dramatist, Essayist
Happiness lies not in the mere possession of money; it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative effort. The joy and moral stimulation of work no longer must be forgotten in the mad chase of evanescent profits. These dark days will be worth all they cost us if they teach us that our true destiny is not to be ministered unto but to minister to ourselves and to our fellow men.
—Franklin D. Roosevelt (1882–1945) American Head of State, Lawyer
A happy man or woman is a better thing to find than a five-pound note. He or she is a radiating focus of goodwill; and their entrance into a room is as though another candle had been lighted.
—Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–94) Scottish Novelist
A good character is the only guarantee of everlasting, carefree happiness.
—Seneca the Younger (Lucius Annaeus Seneca) (c.4 BCE–65 CE) Roman Stoic Philosopher, Statesman, Tragedian
Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people brings happiness.
—Harold Kushner (b.1935) American Jewish Religious Leader, Priest
Happiness is to be found along the way, not at the end of the road, for then the journey is over and it is too late. Today, this hour, this minute is the day, the hour, the minute for each of us to sense the fact that life is good, with all of its trials and troubles, and perhaps more interesting because of them.
—Robert R. Updegraff
On the whole, the happiest people seem to be those who have no particular cause for being happy except that they are so.
—William Ralph Inge (1860–1954) English Anglican Clergyman, Priest, Mystic
Everyone chases after happiness, not noticing that happiness is at their heels.
—Bertolt Brecht (1898–1956) German Poet, Playwright, Theater Personality
Never mind your happiness; do your duty.
—Will Durant (1885–1981) American Historian, Philosopher, Memoirist, Socialist
The man who makes everything that leads to happiness depend upon himself, and not upon other men, has adopted the very best plan for living happily. This is the man of moderation, the man of manly character and of wisdom.
—Plato (428 BCE–347 BCE) Ancient Greek Philosopher, Mathematician, Educator
Contrary to what most of us believe, happiness does not simply happen to us. It’s something that we make happen, and it results from doing our best. Feeling fulfilled when we live up to our potentialities is what motivates differentiation and leads to evolution.
—Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (b.1934) Hungarian-American Psychologist
So long as we can lose any happiness, we possess some.
—Booth Tarkington (1869–1946) American Novelist, Dramatist
All mankind are happier for having been happy, so that if you make them happy new, you make them happy twenty years hence by the memory of it.
—Sydney Smith (1771–1845) English Clergyman, Essayist, Wit
I’m not happy, I’m cheerful. There’s a difference. A happy woman has no cares at all. A cheerful woman has cares but has learned how to deal with them.
—Beverly Sills (1929–2007) American Singer, Musician
There is work that is work and there is play that is play; there is play that is work and work that is play. And in only one of these lies happiness.
—Gelett Burgess (1866–1951) American Humorist, Art Critic
Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within.
—Helen Keller (1880–1968) American Author
A man should always consider how much he has more than he wants and how much more unhappy he might be than he really is.
—Joseph Addison (1672–1719) English Essayist, Poet, Playwright, Politician
My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I’m happy. I can’t figure it out. What am I doing right?
—Charles M. Schulz (1922–2000) American Cartoonist, Writer, Artist
The thirst after happiness is never extinguished in the heart of a man.
—Jean-Jacques Rousseau (1712–78) Swiss-born French Philosopher
Consciously or unconsciously, every one of us does render some service or other. If we cultivate the habit of doing this service deliberately, our desire for service will steadily grow stronger, and will make not only for our own happiness but that of the world at large.
—Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Indian Hindu Political leader
Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.
—Theodore Isaac Rubin (1923–2019) American Psychiatrist, Author
Employment, which Galen calls “nature’s physician,” is so essential to human happiness that indolence is justly considered as the mother of misery.
—Richard Burton (1925–84) Welsh Actor
Happiness depends more on how life strikes you than on what happens.
—Andy Rooney (b.1919) American Writer, Humorist, TV Personality
Felicity, not fluency of language, is a merit.
—Edwin Percy Whipple (1819–86) American Literary Critic
Part of the happiness of life consists not in fighting battles, but in avoiding them. A masterly retreat is in itself a victory.
—Norman Vincent Peale (1898–1993) American Clergyman, Self-Help Author
We all live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all different and yet the same.
—Anne Frank (1929–45) Holocaust Victim
Happiness comes more from loving than being loved; and often when our affection seems wounded it is only our vanity bleeding. To love, and to be hurt often, and to love again — this is the brave and happy life.
—J. E. Buckrose
The secret of happiness is to admire without desiring. And that is not happiness.
—F. H. Bradley (1846–1924 ) British Idealist Philosopher
Real success is not on the stage, but off the stage as a human being, and how you get along with your fellow man.
—Sammy Davis, Jr. (1925–90) American Singer, Musician, Dancer, Actor