Family quarrels have a total bitterness unmatched by others. Yet it sometimes happens that they also have a kind of tang, a pleasantness beneath the unpleasantness, based on the tacit understanding that this is not for keeps; that any limb you climb out on will still be there later for you to climb back.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
Sisters are always drying their hair. Locked into rooms, alone, they pose at the mirror, shoulders bare, trying this way and that their hair, or fly importunate down the stair to answer the telephone.
—Phyllis McGinley (1905–78) American Children’s Books Writer, Poet, Writer of Children’s Books
There are fathers who do not love their children, but there is no grandfather who does not adore his grandson.
—Victor Hugo (1802–85) French Novelist
The ultimate end of your education was to make you a good wife.
—Lady Mary Wortley Montagu (1689–1762) English Aristocrat, Poet, Novelist, Writer
I would like to be remembered as a man who had a wonderful time living life, a man who had good friends, fine family – and I don’t think I could ask for anything more than that, actually.
—Frank Sinatra (1915–1998) American Singer
I’ve always believed in magic. When I wasn’t doing anything in this town, I’d go up every night, sit on Mulholland Drive, look out at the city, stretch out my arms, and say, “Everybody wants to work with me. I’m a really good actor. I have all kinds of great movie offers”. I’d just repeat these things over and over, literally convincing myself that I had a couple movies lined up. I’d drive down that hill, ready to take the world on, going, “Movie offers are out there for me, I just don’t hear them yet”. It was like total affirmations, antidotes to the stuff that stems from my family background.
—Jim Carrey (b.1962) Canadian Actor, Comedian
Fathers should be neither seen nor heard. That is the only proper basis for family life.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish Poet
A mother who is really a mother is never free.
—Honore de Balzac (1799–1850) French Novelist
We are always too busy for our children; we never give them the time or interest they deserve. We lavish gifts upon them; but the most precious gift, our personal association, which means so much to them, we give grudgingly.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910) American Humorist
The only perfect love to be found on earth is not sexual love, which is riddled with hostility and insecurity, but the wordless commitment of families, which takes as its model mother-love. This is not to say that fathers have no place, for father-love, with its driving for self-improvement and discipline, is also essential to survival, but that uncorrected father-love, father-love as it were practiced by both parents, is a way to annihilation.
—Germaine Greer (b.1939) Australia Academic, Journalist, Scholar, Writer
The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.
—Maya Angelou (1928–2014) American Poet
Only mothers can think of the future, because they give birth to it in their children.
—Maxim Gorky (1868–1936) Russian Writer, Dramatist, Political Activist, Novelist
Big sisters are the crab grass in the lawn of life.
—Charles M. Schulz (1922–2000) American Cartoonist, Writer, Artist
Do well and you will have no need for ancestors.
—Voltaire (1694–1778) French Philosopher, Author
I can’t help detesting my relations. I suppose it comes from the fact that none of us can stand other people having the same faults as ourselves.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish Poet
The family is the nucleus of civilization.
—William C. Durant (1861–1947) American Entrepreneur, Business
As the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live.
—Pope John Paul II (1920–2005) Polish Catholic Religious Leader
I don’t have to look up my family tree, because I know that I’m the sap.
—Fred Allen (1894–1956) American Humorist, Radio Personality
The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a family all wrapped up in each other.
—Burton Hillis (William E. Vaughan) (1915–77) American Columnist, Author
A good friend is my nearest relation.
—Common Proverb
In our family, as far as we are concerned, we were born and what happened before that is myth.
—V. S. Pritchett (1900–97) British Short Story Writer, Biographer, Memoirist, Literary Critic
People who have good relationships at home are more effective in the marketplace.
—Zig Ziglar (1926–2012) American Author
There is not much less vexation in the government of a private family than in the managing of an entire state.
—Michel de Montaigne (1533–92) French Essayist
Is that what I want? The model family, two plus two in an easy home assembly kit? I don’t want a model, I want the full-scale original. I don’t want to reproduce, I want to make something entirely new.
—Jeanette Winterson (b.1959) English Novelist, Journalist
Of all my wife’s relations I like myself the best.
—Joseph Cook
Never did I think that I became family entertainment.
—Jimmy Buffett (b.1946) American Children’s Books Writer, Musician, Author
There’s an awful lot of blood around that water is thicker than.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author
Some people are your relatives but others are your ancestors, and you choose the ones you want to have as ancestors. You create yourself out of those values.
—Ralph Ellison (1914–1994) American Novelist
Families with babies and families without babies are sorry for each other.
—E. W. Howe (1853–1937) American Novelist, Editor
Some are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same — and most mothers kiss and scold together.
—Pearl S. Buck (1892–1973) American Novelist, Human Rights Activist
If you don’t believe in ghosts, you’ve never been to a family reunion.
—Ashleigh Brilliant (b.1933) British Cartoonist, Author
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
—Theodore Hesburgh (b.1917) American Catholic Educator, Clergyman
A good father lives so he is a credit to his children.
—Arnold Glasow (1905–98) American Businessman
If the family were a fruit, it would be an orange, a circle of sections, held together but separable – each segment distinct.
—Letty Cottin Pogrebin (b.1939) American Writer, Journalist
One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters.
—George Herbert (1593–1633) Welsh Anglican Poet, Orator, Clergyman
Family is just accident…. They don’t mean to get on your nerves. They don’t even mean to be your family, they just are.
—Marsha Norman (b.1947) American Playwright, Screenwriter, Novelist
To us, family means putting your arms around each other and being there.
—Barbara Bush (1925–2018) American First Lady
A parent’s job is to encourage kids to develop a joy for life and a great urge to follow their own dreams. The best we can do is to help thm develop a personal set of tools for the task.
—Randy Pausch (1960–2008) American Academic, Author
The family – that dear octopus from whose tentacles we never quite escape, nor, in our inmost hearts, ever quite wish to.
—Dodie Smith (1896–1990) British Novelist, Playwright, Writer
I have always looked at life as a voyage, mostly wonderful, sometimes frightening. In my family and friends I have discovered treasure more valuable than gold.
—Jimmy Buffett (b.1946) American Children’s Books Writer, Musician, Author
The family is the school of duties… founded on love.
—Felix Adler
ihave often noticed thatancestors never boastof the descendants who boastof ancestors i wouldrather start a family thanfinish one blood will tell but oftenit tells too much
—Don Marquis (1878–1937) American Humorist, Journalist, Novelist, Playwright, Writer
The family is a haven in a heartless world.
—Christopher Lasch (1932–94) American Historian, Moralist, Social Critic
Every man is an omnibus in which his ancestors ride.
—Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (1809–94) American Physician, Essayist
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.
—Euripides (480–406 BCE) Ancient Greek Dramatist
Cultivate your own capabilities, your own style. Appreciate the members of your family for who they are, even though their outlook or style may be miles different from yours. Rabbits don’t fly. Eagles don’t swim. Ducks look funny trying to climb. Squirrels don’t have feathers. Stop comparing. There’s plenty of room in the forest.
—Chuck Swindoll (b.1934) American Christian Pastor, Author, Educator, Radio Personality
A man ought to live so that everybody knows he is a Christian… and most of all, his family ought to know.
—Dwight L. Moody (1837–99) Christian Religious Leader, Publisher
We think our fathers fools, so wise we grow. Our wiser sons, no doubt will think us so.
—Alexander Pope (1688–1744) English Poet